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Submission
I met my boyfriend through tinder and when we first met, we clicked instantly... kinda like I knew he was the one and from that day on I never really left... which was too quick for anyone just meeting someone. but the relationship moved fast and after a little over a year of dating, I became pregnant. Now during the first year of our relationship I caught him texting his ex and stuff and to me that is cheating, and I later found out he was. My body told me and every time I felt it and checked his phone. and I was right. but for some reason I love him and decided to stay... Well like I said previously, I became pregnant. when I was around 3 months pregnant, I lost my sense of intuition, but God still led me to the truth. I caught my boyfriend texting his ex-AGAIN. this time it was gut wrenching because I’m pregnant with his child thinking the past is in the past and we are starting fresh… well his ex was threatening me to him in text if I have this baby and what not. but the one text that hurt me so much was the one that said, “it should have been you”. how do you say that to another woman while the one you supposedly love is carrying your child??? I left for over a month with limited contact to speak about our dog we share. He blew my phone up the whole time trying to win me back. After over a month of being away I came back to drop our dog off to visit and we started to chat again. During that month though I was questioning if I should keep the baby. well, we start talking and he told me that he only said those things to appease her, so she didn’t reach out me and any other excuse men give but I was so scared to be a single mom. I still am. we tried working through it and we are together, and I do love him, and it is so hard to walk away… I don’t understand why after all the hurt I still love him?? I don’t want too... I want to be strong enough to leave for me and for our child. We both deserve better. I feel like we have been in a rut. He hasn’t cheated but I think he holds a lot of resentment as do I that we are having a hard time moving past. He isn’t loving me the way I want to be loved/deserved. I feel like I’ve told him two times now that I’m not happy and deserve nothing but that because I had an awful childhood and I don’t feel seen/protected/ or heard. I don’t know what else I can do. I love him so much but I’m so tired of being the only one trying in this relationship… I’m scared to leave and I’m not at the point of fully wanting to leave (even though I should). I just love my family and new family on his side …. ugh I just wanted to rant!
Authors Advice
I loved that you came here to rant and want to encourage you to fill out the contact form because I genuinely want to check in on you. Your feelings are sooo valid, and I know this is very hard for you. No one plans to be a single parent, and it's scary that may be a possibility. He needs to block that ex and cut any access from her. Even responding, is giving her the oppurtunity to meddle into your relationship. If he doesn't, you will have your answer.
Submission
He literally married someone who ruined his life and he says I’m the best thing that’s happened to him but we’re still not married and he won’t even have sex with me I feel so ugly.
Authors Advice
Ohh Hun. It's 100% not you. I hate that you feel like you're ugly. I know I can't see you, but I bet that is a lie. I promise there is someone who will love you for you. He does not. His actions have shown you that; His words have not. Self-love is hard to do, but attainable. Once you love yourself, there's nothing that man can do to bring you down.
Submission
I'm unsure about myself.
Authors Advice
Oh Hun, Trust me. Self- Doubt can be loud, but your voice is stronger. Writing it down or talking it out- even anonymously- is the first step to reclaiming your confidence. I'm here to help you find your calm.
believe in yourself, there is no limit to what you can achieve.
Submission
I am having real bad anxiety right now.
Authors Advice
Anxiety whispers lies about your worth and your future. But those whispers aren't truths. Share what you're feeling-let it out. Sometimes just putting it into words softens the storm inside.
Submission
I don't know what to do, everything seems uncertain. Right now, I am dealing with loneliness.
Authors Advice
Feeling alone isn't a sign you're broken. It means your heart needs connection- even if it's just words on a screen. You can always send me what's on your mind. No judgement, just quiet support.
Submission
I am feeling very overwhelmed with life in general.
Authors Advice
Sometimes life feels like too much - Like you're carrying a weight no one sees. It's okay to take a pause and just breathe. Remember, you don't have to have it all figured out right now. I'm here to listen whenever you need to vent.